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Thursday, April 26, 2012

Limes my loves :)

Yesterday was my last day at Limes until fall. Waaah! Gonna miss those kids so much!! I was hoping to go today as well, but by the time I finished errands and made some food, there was just no way it was going to happen. Not to mention I am trying to finish up everything around the house today so that I can relax tomorrow and for the most part just enjoy my last day here for a couple months.

Anyways, as always, the kids were cute and hilarious and to make it even better everyone was really well behaved... even Miguel one of our more rambunctious kids got a sticker for good behavior!! It was seriously a big day! I knew there was a chance that yesterday would be my last day, so I was just trying to take in as much cuteness as I could, and of course get some pictures of their silly faces - especially the little ones, who I feel are going to grow a ton over the next 2 months and not be so "babyish" when I see them next.  I just want them to stay little FOREVER!!! I asked Jada if she was going to get big while I was gone, and she said "nope." If only that were true. But I know they will always continue to be super cute sillies- just with extra sass and opinions on everything...

I also asked Jada if she wanted to come home with me and she said "yep" and that she was wanted to play in the snow. That would probably be hilarious. These kids know nothing other than heat and Laura, one of the other volunteers said they get super excited over the AC in her car... so I can only imagine their reaction to snow. I told her it wasn't winter so there would probably be no snow in Michigan anyways, but she was not convinced... she said to bring it back as a present. Yeah, we'll see about that Jada girl... how about a necklace instead. 

One heartbreaking but bonding moment was when Tammy was coloring with one of the girls and telling her about how her daughter was going to come and visit because she loves playing with kids. The sweet little girl looks at her and asks "does she even like playing with little black kids?" So precious and cute, but so heartbreaking that even at 8 years old they are aware of the differences and discrepancies in race.  Tammy did an excellent job explaining to her that we love all children and that we don't pay attention to skin color. While explaining this Tammy used crayons as an example pointing out that the white crayon did not match her own skin, and asked her if the black crayon was a perfect match to her own skin. The little girl said no, and this led to further discussion about the topic and how everyone looks a little different and it isn't just black and white. I thought this was a very creative and touching way to explain it and immediately following the explanation the little girl cuddled up to Tammy with a smile on her face. So sweet! How could they not melt our hearts?? Great job Tammy! It's moments like these that really warm my heart.

I will miss them sooo much over the summer, but am thankful I know I get to come back and spend another year with them. I am definitely not ready to leave for good yet, and my heart goes out to the volunteers who are at that point. The SO organization does such great things for these kids and the SO coordinators work so hard to keep it running smoothly. Sadly this semester both of our coordinators are leaving, but I know they will forever be in the hearts of these kids and we see that every day as the kids ask about old teachers who showed them so much love! 

Oh Jada girl.... I need to take her home with me I think. I just love her too much. 
Isn't he so cute? He loves to color, but not  by himself.  
So silly all the time!!! I was so happy to have a smile out of her though... now just gotta work on the eyes open... at the same time... <3 
Yay! Probably the most she's ever cooperated for a picture! She was busy telling me to bring her back lots of "tings" so she must have been trying to butter me up. It worked.  
Need to take her home as well. LOVE THIS FACE! Seriously, it does not get any more cute than this. 
She's so sweet, I can't even stand it. 
Melts my heart. Over and over and over again.  
Skippin' 
I literally laugh every time I look at this picture. What a goofball. 
My boyfriend. Add him to the list that are coming home with me. I can't get enough of him. 

I already can't wait to come back at the end of June and squeeze them!! 

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Crocs for Kiddies!

Reach out. Raise hope. Change Society. That was the slogan I heard over and over while getting my master's in Social Work at the University of Michigan. I must admit, while I thought it was a good slogan I didn't think too much about it while I was there. Of course I wanted to help people and of course I wanted to be a part of change, but mostly at the time I was focused on simply graduating. However, since graduating it has crossed my mind many times. Living in Grenada and being involved with the children here I see first hand the impact that people can have on these children, even with the smallest acts of kindness.  The After School program at Limes is a wonderful program, and a much needed one. It gives these kids something to do after school and helps keep them out of trouble- at least for a couple hours. It gives them something to look forward to and it gives us the opportunity to shower them with love and the attention they are starved for.

Reach Out. Today at Limes we gave out 63 pairs of crocs!! One of the SOs Aunts and their church were super generous and donated the shoes and paid to have them shipped here for the kids. Now how wonderful and thoughtful is that? People who haven't even met these kids, yet have heard stories about them and seen pictures reached within themselves to do something special for these kids. Many of these kids come to class without shoes, or with shoes that are in really dreadful shape, and so this gift was perfect. All the way from another country they put huge smiles on many kiddos faces and made a small(but for the moment, big) difference in their lives.

Raise Hope. Not only do these shoes provide for the kids in the fact that they don't have shoes and need them, but they don't get gifts often and that gesture alone is a gift to them.  They got to feel special and loved, and they have a brand new pair of shoes as their very own. What's the saying... "they won't remember you for the things you gave them, but for how you made them feel." I think that is a key component to "raising hope" and being a positive influence on these kids. While they will most definitely outgrow these shoes, the feeling that people care about them may last. At the same time, Grenada is full of people, and more importantly children, who live in poverty, and who don’t necessarily have basic things, such as shoes. These shoes were a token of love and provided for some of their basic needs, put a smile on their faces, and maybe in the smallest of ways elevated their hope and comfort, at least for the day. 

Change Society. This doesn't mean we want to come in and change the way these kids and their families are living or force our values and beliefs upon them, but rather I think it is our opportunity to use what we have to help those who have less than us. By sharing our gifts, talents, and time, we can help to make their lives a little better and reach out to them with kindness. It is small acts of kindness such as these shoes that do change society, little by little, child by child.  It's the thought and actions that we all have the ability to do, in some form, that can make a difference and lead to change. 

You don't necessarily need the official title of "Social Worker" or to be officially employed as one to do social work. Social work is helping others and striving to make the world a better and more equal place. It is about reaching out, raising hope, and changing society in every day life through our thoughts and actions. So although we SOs (significant others) may only be in Grenada because of boyfriends, husbands, girlfriends, or wives, and we may not get a paycheck every week, working with these kids quickly becomes something we love doing and a part of our weekly routine.  Since it isn’t a paid job, we don’t need to show up 3 days a week, but we do because we love these kids. I think that is what I love so much about volunteer work. We aren’t driven to help because of money or obligation; we do it because we care.  And we get to give the children wonderful gifts because of others in Grenada or at home, whose hearts have also been touched. I've only been here a couple weeks, and I admire all the hard work and dedication that I see and know was put forth before I came here, and am excited to be a part of that moving forward. There is nothing better than the hugs, smiles, laughter, and happiness of kids. Let alone, kids who don’t have much, and deserve every little bit we can give them. 


Before I came to Grenada this term (and even still from time to time being here) I get looks and questions as to what I am doing here, or the popular joke of "oh, so you are just on a 2 year vacation in the Caribbean?" To answer- yes, I am in Grenada for 2 years, and I am getting to spend a lot of time on the beach, but as someone who went to school for social work, I couldn't ask to be in a better place. These kids need us, and I think what the SO program is doing is amazing. Yes, we are going to continue to be broke for many years to come, but we will get a chance to be employed, slowly pay back Uncle Sam, and make money later on. But for now, we get to play, help with reading and math skills, hug, snuggle, and love on some really special kids who need it. Yeah, I think that beats a paycheck any day. 

Waiting for their surprise and being super excited when they saw all the new shoes in all different colors!


She melts my heart. She is just the sweetest little girl.


Couldn't you just eat these cuties up?
Showin' off all their brand new shoes!!
"Miss, I no cranky butt, you de cranky butt"
Miss Julie asked to see their shoes and this is what they did... so silly! 
SO much love! 



"The place to improve the world is first in one's own heart, head, and hands, and then work outward from there."